Book Review:
A true story that few ever believed would come to light, Growing Up bin Laden uncovers startling revelations and hidden secrets carefully guarded by the most wanted man in our lifetime, Osama bin Laden. These secrets are revealed by the only people who could know such private details, his wife and son.
Najwa bin Laden, who married her cousin Osama bin Laden at the age of 15, is his first wife and the mother to eleven children, seven of Osama's sons and four of his daughters. Omar bin Laden is the fourth son of Osama bin Laden. Together, they narrate spine-tingling details about the drama, tensions, and everyday activities of the man they knew as a husband and father. No writer or journalist, even the most respected, has ever gained access to close members of Osama bin Laden's family, until now. But after Omar and his mother approached bestselling author Jean Sasson, a trusted collaboration slowly formed.
This uniquely human document is the result.
Growing Up bin Laden tells the story of a young girl who married her gentle and kindly first-cousin, enjoying a happy early marriage with the groom of her choice. But world events thrust her husband into a frenzy of militant activities, altering his once pleasing behavior in the process. Thus Najwa's life, and the lives of her innocent children, became a maze of escaping from one country to another. Osama's fourth-born son, Omar, describes his early years, the son who wanted nothing but his father's love, but Omar's quest for his father's attention won him nothing but his father's cruelties.
Together, their powerful story as mother and son give us an extraordinary view of a man hated by so many, yet both loved and feared by his family, including:
• Osama's disapproval of modern conveniences, including electricity and medicine
• His plan to toughen up his sons by taking them into the desert without food or water
• Transporting his wives and children to the rough terrain of Sudan, where he claimed to be preparing them for attacks from western powers, commanding them to dig holes, and to sleep in those holes, allowing nothing more than sand and twigs for cover
• Omar's horror at the rape and murder of a boy his own age, by members of a jihadist group living among them in the Sudan.
• What happened in the bin Laden home in Jeddah, Saudi Arabia, on the morning of September 11, 2001, and Omar's surprise phone call with his mother, who escaped from Afghanistan only two days before the shattering events that killed so many innocent people
Through their frank accounts, Omar and Najwa dispel the many myths about Osama bin Laden that are currently circulating, including:
Myth: Osama ordered Najwa to be sent to him in Saudi Arabia, to make her his bride against her objections.
Fact: Osama and Najwa knew each other from Najwa's birth. Their relationship was one of family friendship that developed into love. In fact, Najwa married Osama over her mother's protests.
Myth: Neither Osama nor Najwa has ever traveled to the United States.
Fact: Osama traveled with Najwa and their two oldest sons to Indiana in 1979. Osama left Najwa in Indiana while he traveled to LA to meet with jihadist Abdullah Azzam.
Myth: Osama bin Laden has been seriously ill with kidney disease for many years, creating a need to transport a dialysis machine with him wherever he goes.
Fact: Osama bin Laden's health was good, suffering only from kidney stones and recurrences of malaria he contracted when fighting in Afghanistan against the Soviets.
Myth: Mullah Mohammed Omar, the head of the Taliban, welcomed Osama to Afghanistan in 1996, after Sudanese officials expelled him.
Fact: Mullah Omar did not invite Osama. In fact, Osama was wary of the actions Mullah Omar might take once he discovered Osama was operating on Afghan territory. The two men did not even meet for several years after Osama arrived, and their relationship was never easy. Mullah Omar actually insulted Osama, and wanted him to leave Afghanistan after the 1998 al-Qaeda bombings of the American African Embassies.
Since September 11, 2001, journalists have struggled to uncover carefully guarded information about Osama's private life, and his wives and children. All have failed. But Growing Up bin Laden reveals the names and background of all Osama's wives, and the names and ages of his children.
With unprecedented access and insight, Jean Sasson, author of the bestselling Princess: A True Story Behind the Veil in Saudi Arabia, takes us inside the secret world of Osama bin Laden.
A Bin Laden Family Album: